No Dummies Here! ~ Claiming your genius within.

If children grew up according to early indications, we should have nothing but geniuses.

— Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

Whenever I walk through a bookstore, I am amazed by all the books on the shelves for dummies and idiots. I see Sex for Dummies, Raising Chickens for Dummies, and The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Past Life Regression. Amazon.com lists 754 books for Dummies and 200 books for Complete Idiots.

We must really think we are stupid, to need to purchase so many books for the dim-witted! I sometimes wonder if I could sell any books in a Genius series, such as The Genius’s Guide to Public Speaking, or Dating for Really Smart People. Probably not. We have been so trained to think that we are brainless that when someone suggests we might be brilliant, we feel embarrassed or even argue for our incompetence.

You were not born stupid. You were born smart, with enough wisdom to navigate every passage of your life. But then you were methodically conditioned by other people who believed they were stupid, and passed their perceived ineptitude onto you. They taught you that you do not know, when you do know . . . or you have the capacity to know. My friend’s son went off to his first day of kindergarten and came home crying. “The teacher told us to color in a cartoon of a clown,” the boy explained. “When I colored the clown’s nose green, she told me, ‘That’s all wrong. Everyone knows that a clown’s nose is red.’” While the teacher could have congratulated the boy on his clever imagination, instead she gave him a pass to the Dummies’ Club.

My friend Dr. Robert Holden, a world-renowned psychologist and expert on the science of happiness, recently welcomed his second child into his family. When I asked Robert what he had learned from being a father, he answered, “The idea that children are born as blank slates is complete bunk. Each of my children arrived with a totally unique energy and personality. Clearly they brought their own wisdom with them.”

You, too, have come into this world equipped with all the wisdom you need. You just need to trust it and act on it. Contrary to what you have been told, you are not stupid. You are extremely smart. As smart as God. It’s time to quit playing dumb and start living from your innate smarts.

I used to participate in Orthodox Judaism, which prohibits the use of electric devices on the Sabbath. I needed to awaken around 8 A.M. to get to the temple by 9, without using an alarm clock. So I would go to sleep on the eve of the Sabbath and set an intention to awaken at the right time. I remember several mornings on which I opened my eyes to see the second hand touching the 12 on the clock’s face at precisely 8. Something inside me was perfectly aware of the time.

Something inside you, too, is perfectly aware of not just time, but timing. You know when it is time to do something and when it is time to stop. Often while I am having a conversation or a meal with someone, a moment comes when I sense that it is time to bring it to a close or leave. If I could put words to the feeling, it would say: “The purpose of this meeting is now complete, and you need to get on to your next place.” When I heed that inclination, amazing synchronicities and serendipitous meetings occur, and I recognize that I am in the flow of life.

Trust your intuition and inclinations, and act on them. You are being guided at every moment.

 

You Are the Miracle ~ How to be more present and giving.

Hold up your hand, palm facing you, and find the horizontal line, or crease, that runs along the bottom of your hand at the top of your wrist. Find the same horizontal crease on your other hand. Place your wrists together so that the two creases line up exactly with each other. Now, carefully bring your palms and fingers together. Your hands should line up perfectly in prayerlike fashion.

Look at how your two middle fingers line up. They will either be even in length or one will be shorter than the other. For this exercise, you will pick the shorter finger. If your fingers are even, you get to choose either the right or the left one. It’s up to you.

Separate your hands and place them on a table (if you’re sitting at one) or in your lap. Examine and become aware of the middle finger you chose and think: This finger will grow longer. Don’t move the finger; just become acutely aware of it. Do so for one full minute. You don’t have to tell it to grow longer again. Once is enough. Just provide what it needs to make the transition, which is your focused awareness. That one finger gets your total attention for a full minute. That’s all!

After the minute has passed, again measure the length of your fingers using the creases across your wrists exactly as you did before, and presto-chango . . . your finger is longer! It’s amazing. It’s like a little miracle. However, St. Augustine taught that “miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature but only in contradiction to what is known in nature.” So, get used to it. You will be producing little miracles every day once you “know” the secret of awareness.

During the Growing-Finger Exercise, you told yourself what you wanted to happen, didn’t you? You had a single thought: This finger will grow longer. And then it happened without any further work, mental or physical, on your part. The only ingredient you added was awareness. This is all you ever need to get things done. I know that’s hard to believe, but it’s true, and you’ll prove it to yourself by the time you finish reading this book.

Awareness is the prime mover of all that we know, see, and feel; and once we become aware of that, our lives will flow effortlessly like a river merging with the sea of all possibilities.

Now think back to when you first realized that your finger was longer. What did you feel at that very moment? Were you surprised? Did you feel a sense of awe and wonder? A miracle has that effect on us, doesn’t it? It wakes us from our sleepwalking. For a moment, we are moved, excited, and inspired. Wouldn’t it be a marvel if we could live our lives in constant wonderment like a child exploring the world with eyes wide open? Well, guess what? We can. Albert Einstein knew this secret. “There are only two ways to live your life,” he said. “One is as if nothing is a miracle. The other is as if everything is a miracle.”

As you follow the simple instructions laid out in the pages of my new book, The Secret of Quantum Living, you will gain the tools and insight to transform the lives of your family and friends—and even strangers. In a matter of seconds, you can touch them deeply and forever. And each time, in doing so, you will have also transformed yourself. It cannot happen any other way.

This is my promise to you: Learn the quantum entrainment (QE) process and perform it as it is presented in my book, and you will soon find remarkable changes taking place in all areas of your life. Some changes you will expect, but most will be like a gift you weren’t expecting. You will continually be surprised by joy and quelled by your own inner peace. Everything in your life will be exactly the same, yet also somehow more friendly and sustaining.

Your friends may remark that you are different—more present, more giving. To you, any problems—the highs and lows that dogged and defined your previous life—are now met with an inner acceptance that allows them to flow easily in and out without resistance. Inner peace is the rule rather than a sought-after and rarely experienced exception. Your inner life will become remarkably different, while outwardly you may not appear to change at all, except maybe for more relaxed shoulders; a comfortable, confident gait; and, most evident of all, an impish sparkle in your eyes. Then, before long, you will look back on your life and think to yourself, I am the miracle.

 

We’re All in This Together ~ 7 steps to living in-Spirit.

Every human encounter represents a moment of truth, one in which you can choose to be reconnected to Spirit and offer to others what you genuinely want for yourself. The opportunities present themselves in the form of a smile or a greeting or an extension of kindness, even if it’s just a silent blessing to a person begging on a street corner or a prayer said quietly when you hear a siren. (The siren is a reminder to offer thoughts of comfort to whomever is in need of assistance.)

Countless opportunities arise each day to reach into the lives of others in an inspiring way. We can act on these impulses and feel inspired, or we can ignore them and stay in our ego-dominated world. I choose to act because it makes me feel creatively alive, connected to good (God) and to everyone else in the world.

Taking action is how we increase our connectedness to Spirit. If we’re heeding our true calling, we must be willing to act on that mission. Try the following action steps for a few weeks and see if you don’t feel more inspired than you’ve ever felt before.

  1. Before beginning your day, spend a few moments with God during the early morning. When you awaken, remind yourself, “These are my few moments with God.” During those precious seconds, ask, reflect, feel the peace, and most important, extend your gratitude. I end my few moments with God every morning with this: “Thank You, thank You, thank You!”
  2. As you begin your day, decide on something to do that will improve the quality of life for someone, without seeking any credit for yourself. (If you can do it before breakfast, great!) A letter, some flowers, a contribution, an unexpected plan to visit someone later in the day—do anything at all that will make someone else feel good.
  3. Overcome your inertia. Since to be inert is to be without action, agree to become a being of movement: Plan to exercise, make that call you’ve been avoiding, or write that letter. Just as the key to Spirit is movement, the key to health is circulation. Spirit is always in a state of creation, so commit to less lying or sitting around and more movement.
  4. Listen to your inner voice and promise that you’ll take corrective action. For example, if you’ve been addicted to alcohol or drugs, overeating, or being a doormat, listen to that inner voice that begs you to be big rather than small, and take one corrective step. Just for today, throw the cigarettes away, pass on the sweets, walk around the block, or stand up for yourself. That inner voice is God pleading with you to rejoin Him in-Spirit by being pure, strong, and an instrument of well-being.
  5. Accept no excuses: Stop with the BS and be truthful with yourself, admit your flaws rather than defending them, and look in the mirror and talk to yourself honestly. Affirm: I am a creation of God, and I am Divine. I’ve forgotten this, but now I’m not accepting excuses. I’m going to stop fooling myself and work at being all that I was destined to be.
  6. Experience the apprehension and do it anyway! It’s the doing that brings you in tune with Spirit, so don’t let fear stop you. Allow the panic to come, and then move in the direction of facing it. Visualize the fear right in front of you. Stare it down and tell it how you truly feel and what you intend to become: “I’m stronger than you. I have my Creator here with me as a Senior Consultant, so I’m no longer willing to allow you to have dominance in my life. I’m scared, but I’m also taking action.”
  7. Finally, don’t ever quit. Never give up on yourself or feel shame as a result of not fulfilling your objectives to reconnect to your Divine nature. Every fall that you take is a gift, and every relapse is a glorious opportunity—after all, without them you can’t manifest the energy to get to a higher place.

These strategies for taking inspired action will work even if they’re just adopted one day at a time. Begin your reconnection to Spirit (and to everyone else in the world) today. Living with inspiration calls for compassionate action toward others and yourself.

 

Life is a Miracle ~ Trust your heavenly visions.

In the early 1980s, radio news began to report visions of the Virgin Mary taking place in the town of Kibeho in central Africa…

When I was growing up in Rwanda (and thank goodness times are really changing!), women, although revered and highly respected as mothers, were all too often afforded little or no respect as independent, intelligent, thoughtful human beings. It was a very chauvinistic society in which basic rights, such as property ownership and higher education, were the domains of men. Luckily, my father and mother were progressive in their views and pushed for me to go as far in school as possible, which eventually led me to university. But male machismo was an accepted role my teenage brothers found difficult to shed, and they never missed an opportunity to crack jokes about a girl or woman who did anything a man couldn’t do—which at the time included having visions of the Virgin Mary!

“Those girls in Kibeho are either drunk or practicing voodoo,” my brother Damascene would tease with a chuckle. “You know how it is with high-school girls, don’t you? They’re worried that they won’t get a husband after they graduate, so they want to learn magic to help them catch a man before they get too old!”

My father would always hush my brothers and let me listen to the Kibeho reports, even though he was a well-educated and cautious man by nature and was hesitant at first to believe that the visionaries were having actual apparitions. But he had a deep love and respect for the Virgin Mary, and if anyone showed love and affection for Our Lady, as I certainly did, Dad would fully support and encourage their devotion.

“Time will tell if these apparitions are real or not,” Dad would say to the boys. “But if these schoolgirls are helping build people’s faith in the Blessed Mother, we are going to let your sister listen to what they have to say on the radio . . . and you’re going to listen along with her, boys. Your sports scores and soccer games can wait.”

My brothers would groan and roll their eyes, and they predicted that the little shrine in my bedroom would soon be laden with even more statues of the Virgin Mary. But their complaints ended on a sunny summer day in 1982 when we heard about a new visionary who had arrived in Kibeho . . . a boy named Segatashya, who was receiving visitations from Jesus Christ himself. For my brothers, the fact that a boy had become a visionary suddenly made all the miraculous apparitions that had taken place in Kibeho much more credible. And it seemed that because Segatashya was the first visionary to experience apparitions of Jesus Christ, my very tough-to-impress older siblings were won over. “Well, if it’s a boy who’s talking to Jesus . . . then I guess there just might be something to all this visionary stuff in Kibeho,” my brother Aimable conceded after hearing a clip of Segatashya on the radio.

As for me, I’d already heard Segatashya’s voice a few days earlier on a tape recording played by Father Apollinaire Rwagema, our local priest, for the kids who attended his weekly children’s Mass.

I would listen to hundreds of hours of taped apparitions over the next couple of years, but that very first time I heard a recording of Segatashya will stick with me forever. A shiver ran up and down my spine when I initially heard the boy’s gentle voice coming out of the crackly speakers of Father Rwagema’s old tape player. Father Rwagema told us that he made the recording on a sunny day, under a bright blue sky without a cloud in sight . . . then he urged us to listen closely.

The 200 or so kids with whom I sat huddled on the floor of the one-room chapel were as mesmerized as I was by what we heard coming from the tape machine. First we heard the chanting of the large crowd—thousands of pleading voices—that had gathered in Kibeho to hear the visionaries communicate with heaven. The crowd cried out to Segatashya, addressing him by name and calling for him to summon a miracle . . . a miracle to give them faith in what they were witnessing and to help them truly believe in the apparitions.

Above the din of the crowd, arose the soft tenor voice of Segatashya as he reverently addressed Jesus: “Yes, Lord, I have told them many times,” the voice said. “No, Lord, they don’t listen . . . they always tell me they want a miracle. They won’t believe that you’re talking to me, Jesus—not without seeing a miracle or a sign.”

Suddenly a peel of thunder blasted through the tape recorder’s speakers, and the kids in the room jumped up in unison. We could hear frightened screams ripple through the hubbub of the surprised crowd. Then there were some cheers for the miracle that had just happened, followed by the calming voice of Segatashya as he urged everyone in the crowd not to worry about the thunder that had literally struck from out of the blue.

“Jesus says you shouldn’t be afraid; he would never do anything to harm his children,” the boy insisted. “No one here has been injured, pregnant women need not worry about their babies, and those with weak hearts will be well . . . yes Lord, I’ll tell them as you say . . . Jesus is saying that he gave you thunder so you would listen to his messages and not ask for miracles that have no meaning . . . because your lives are miracles. A true miracle is a child in the womb; a mother’s love is a miracle; a forgiving heart is a miracle. Your lives are filled with miracles, but you are too distracted by material things to see them.

“Jesus tells you to open your ears to hear his messages, and open your hearts to receive his love. Too many people have lost their way and walk the easy road that leads away from God. Stop looking to the sky for miracles. Open your heart to God; true miracles occur in the heart.”

That was the first divine message I heard Segatashya deliver and, as I said, it changed my life. That message opened my heart to the essence of all the messages that would be delivered in Kibeho. The simple honesty in this boy’s voice instantly made him my favorite among all the visionaries.

 

Stumbling Toward Success ~ Trial and error works!

Recently, my son introduced me to one of his favorite websites – www.stumbleupon.com. The basic idea, he explained to me, is that you click on a number of categories of things you find interesting, from movies to world politics to games to oceanography. You then “stumble” onto a website chosen at random by the website’s decision engine, and after viewing the page you click “I like it,” “I don’t like it,” or you can express your indifference by not clicking anything.

The decision engine takes these refinements into account, and you are gradually channeled towards more and more sites that you enjoy and away from those that hold no interest for you. The more you stumble, the more accurate and enjoyable the websites you will stumble upon.

At first glance, this seemed like one of the biggest time wasters imaginable, and my efficiency trained brain rejected it as yet another attempt to exploit my attention deficit until it became a full blown attention recession (or worse still, a depression). Yet after playing on the site for awhile, I’ve come to see that it is a fantastic metaphor for how it seems to me that people succeed in the “real world.”

We all know how we’re supposed to succeed, don’t we? We set clear goals and objectives, make a plan, and follow that plan to the successful achievement of our goals.

While this kind of logical, linear approach to life looks great on paper (literally), in my experience life has far more say in how things turn out than many of us would like to admit. And in my formal and informal interviews of happy, successful people over the past twenty years, I’ve noticed that even if they made plans for specific, short-term objectives, when it came to the bigger picture of their lives, the “plan” these people have followed was not so much created as unfolded from the inside out.

In other words, they picked a direction that appealed to them and took their first few awkward, stumbling steps in that direction. Along the way, they bumped into people and circumstances and challenges and opportunities. If they liked what they found, they kept stumbling along in that direction, making more and more refined distinctions as they went. If they didn’t like what they found, they stumbled off in a different direction, following their inner sense of desire to mark the path that was appearing in front of them as they went.

Did they occasionally stumble a bit too hard and fall on their faces? Inevitably. But because they were so enjoying their adventure, they would simply pick themselves up, lick their wounds as needed, and stumble on in the direction of their own fascination and curiosity.

And this same approach is available to all of us at any time.

Do you think you might want to write a novel?

Put pen to paper, allow yourself to write some absolute drivel, and see what story and characters begin to emerge.

Do you have what it takes to succeed in business?

Take your first, tentative steps in the direction of what you think you might want to do and you may be surprised and delighted by what you stumble upon.

Now if your rational brain is throwing up a stream of objections to this seemingly random and disorganized approach, you can either give it the day off or perhaps appease it by showing it the “secret strategy” behind stumbling towards success:

Acknowledge the things that work for you and do more of them.

Acknowledge the things that don’t work for you and do less of them.

When in doubt, stumble!

And if that doesn’t seem like a good plan to your rational brain, perhaps it’s not as rational as it thinks it is….

Have fun, learn heaps, and happy stumbling!

 

Can Common Sense Save Us? ~ A tough decision from the gut.

By any measure, the 20th century was a wild ride for the people of Earth. Between 1900 and 2000, we went from a world of about 1.6 billion to over 6 billion people, survived two world wars, squeaked through 30 years of the Cold War and 70,000 ready-to-go-at-the-touch-of-a-button nuclear missiles, unlocked the DNA code of life, walked on the moon, and ultimately made the computers that took the first humans into space look like children’s toys. It was 100 years of the most accelerated population growth, and the greatest threat of our extinction, in 5,000 years of recorded history. Many historians look at the 20th century as the age of knowledge, and it’s easy to see why.

The 21st century will be seen as the century of wisdom, as a time when we are forced to apply what we’ve learned in order to survive the world we’ve created. To do so, we will have to approach our problems very differently than we have in the past. We will be challenged to draw upon all that we know and use it in new, creative, and innovative ways. But to do so will require another kind of information that is seldom talked about in the science books of theories, proofs, and facts.

We will have to temper the facts of scientific knowledge with the very ability that sets us apart from other forms of life. We will have to use what generations past simply called “common sense.” The term common sense, however, may not be as ordinary as we make it sound.

Rather, it’s the kind of thinking that comes from a systematic and organized process, one where we consider knowledge from many sources of information, mix it all together, and weigh it carefully before making our choices. And when we seem to be on the fence about the final decision, it’s then that we add the intangible factor of common sense, often based on what we call “gut feeling” or “instinct.”

It’s a good thing that we do, because there are times in the recent past when it’s precisely that undefined quality of human decision making that may have saved the world from disaster! An event during the height of the Cold War is a beautiful example of the power of common sense.

On September 26, 1983, Stanislav Petrov, a high-ranking Soviet military man, was in command of an early-warning system designed to detect any signs of an American attack. Tensions were already at an all-time high following the Soviet interception and shooting down of a civilian jumbo jet and the loss of all 269 people on board, including U.S. Congressman Lawrence McDonald, earlier that month.

At 30 minutes after midnight, the moment Petrov and his command team hoped would never happen did, in fact, occur. Warning lights flashed, sirens sounded, and the computer screens in their room at the top of the Soviet Ballistic Missile Early Warning System (BMEWS) showed five nuclear missiles coming from the U.S. headed directly for the Soviet Union. In a matter of moments, Petrov had to make the choice he dreaded—to return the fire, or not—knowing that, in that moment, the potential beginning of World War III and the fate of humanity was in his hands.

He and the men under his command were military professionals. They had trained for precisely such a moment. His instructions were clear. In the event of attack, he was to push the START button at his console to launch a counterattack against the U.S. Once he did so, he knew that he would set into motion a fail-proof system designed for all-out war. Once the button was pushed, the sequence could not be stopped. It was designed so that it operated from that point forward without the help of humans. “The main computer wouldn’t ask me [what to do],” Petrov later explained. “It was specially constructed in such a way that [once the button was pushed] no one could affect the system’s operations.”1

To Petrov, his operators, and the equipment, the emergency looked real. All of the data checked out. The system seemed to be working, and as far as the radar detectors were concerned, Russia was under the nuclear attack that would begin a third world war.

But Petrov had second thoughts. Something didn’t seem right to him. With only five missiles detected, it wasn’t an “all-out” attack from the U.S., and that was the part that didn’t make sense. It just didn’t seem like any scenario considered by military intelligence.

Petrov had to act immediately, but before he did, he had to be clear about what was happening. Did he actually feel that the Soviet Union was under a nuclear attack from the U.S., or was it something else? In less than one minute he made his decision.

Petrov reported the alarm to his superiors and the other command posts, but he declared it as a “false” reading. And then he waited. If he was wrong, the incoming missiles would strike their Russian targets within 15 minutes. After what must have been a very long 15 minutes, he—and no doubt countless others in command posts throughout the former Soviet Union—breathed a sigh of relief. Nothing had happened: the complex network of satellites and computers had issued a false warning.

A later investigation confirmed that the readings were due to a “glitch” in the radar.

The reason why I’m sharing the story is because of what it illustrates. Even when all of the sophisticated technology told Petrov that Russia was under attack; even though it was the height of the Cold War tensions of 1983; and even with all of his conditioning as a military man trained to follow orders, systems, and procedures, Stanislav Petrov tempered all he knew with the intangible experience of common sense and a gut feeling—an experience that can’t be taught in a classroom or taken in pill form. In this case, one man’s common sense is the reason World War III did not begin in September 1983. Twenty-one years later, in 2004, Petrov was recognized as the “man who saved the world” and honored for his courage to trust his instincts by the Association of World Citizens.

While hopefully none of us will ever be asked to make the kind of choice that Petrov did in 1983, I have no doubt that common sense will play a key role in assessing the knowledge that science puts at our fingertips. It will be our skillful use of that knowledge, tempered with a generous portion of common sense, that will help us bridge the gap between science and its application . . . the age of knowledge and the age of wisdom.

 

Access Your Power ~ Four Traits of Your Higher Self.

The amazing thing about the inner self is just how simple it is to access its power. It boils down to four things: clarity, integrity, courage, and compassion. To pursue these is to begin the path of inspired living and access your greatest vitality. Here are the four traits of an inspired life:

Clarity

Clarity is about how well you manage your energy and intention. Stay focused and clear in your intent in every situation, whenever possible. Clarity is also about moving beyond confusion through understanding, communication, decision making, and the willingness to let go. You’ll almost always be better off by making a small bad choice rather than staying stuck in your own uncertainty and the bad choice you already know. A step in any direction will give you feedback. Remember that no movement means no feedback!

Integrity

Living with integrity means that what you feel and know on the inside matches what you say and do on the outside. Integrity is alignment. It’s not about adhering to an external set of standards regarding morality or good behavior. This is a self-referenced, soul-centered quality. It also represents ownership and responsibility. Integrity means your intentions are reflected in your conduct and mind-set.

Courage

Courage is one of the more underrated and underemphasized qualities in the lives of those with Inspiration Deficit Disorder. More often than not, the main difference between a person with an inspiration deficit and someone without one is whether or not you have the courage to act on what you feel and know in your essence. Think of it in this way: integrity would remain just a good idea without courage.

Courage is like a muscle: the more you use it, the stronger it gets. Trusting, releasing control, staying present, and being kind all take a powerful resolve in the face of old habits and patterns. Remember that fear is the most fundamental root behind all inspiration deficits. The soul cannot blossom or be fully expressed wherever fear is allowed to grow.

Compassion

Compassion is something we all feel but have a difficult time expressing in words. Genuine compassion is about empowering ourselves and others while embodying kindness. It’s about seeking the highest good in every situation, but not always trying to make people happy or “fix” things.

Compassion is being creative, always approaching situations with respect and a desire to understand. By doing so, you can overcome obstacles or hardships through patience, forgiveness, and taking a stand when necessary. You can be steadfast when it comes to protecting yourself or your beliefs, while also honoring your connection to all people and things. Maintain balance, healthy limits, and self-care, as well as the awareness that helping from your Persona rather than your essence isn’t really helping at all. Remember that compassion is love in action—it’s big enough to overcome anything. Sometimes it requires radical action, and other times restraint. To truly embody it is to embrace self-love. Master that and the loving-kindness you offer to the world will be limitless.

The measure of a man or woman lies in the depth to which he or she can live these qualities. Gandhi was one of the greatest examples of someone who achieved this because he was a man of both peace and action. Some associate the qualities of the soul with weakness or passivity, but this couldn’t be further from the truth. As you apply these principles in your life, you’ll experience greater peace and less stress. This isn’t just about being nicer to others; it’s about being good to yourself as well. You’ll feel empowered by your choices and more satisfied by the way you engage in situations. A soulful life is not a passive life, nor is it one of people pleasing or letting others take advantage of you. It’s quite the opposite.

 

At Your Command ~ When the Universe listens.

Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen.

— Attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson

Evelyn was tired of the consulting job she had taken on in addition to her regular work. In a coaching session, she told me, “I wish I had the courage to say no to my boss Tom when he calls me back to consult. But I am afraid of losing the extra income, about $10,000 a year.”

After we discussed the situation, Evelyn decided that the stress and strain of an extra job was not worth the money. The next time Tom called her, much as she hated to turn him down, she would tell him she was not available. She also decided to trust that her finances would be taken care of even if she did not take on this additional job, which was draining her.

During our next session, Evelyn was ecstatic. “You’ll never believe what happened!” she exclaimed. “When I went into Tom’s office, he told me that there’s a new government rule that requires that the job I was doing as an outside consultant be done by someone inside the company. So I was off the hook without any effort. Then I received a memo from my supervisor at my regular job telling me that I had been given a $10,000 merit increase!”

I laughed with Evelyn as we marveled at the tangible result of her putting faith into action. Her desire to quit the consulting job was in alignment with her highest good, and she did not need to exert any struggle to rearrange her position. How easy can it get?

I joked, “Look how powerful you are! You got the government to make a rule that took you from the job you didn’t like, and saved you the trouble of saying no to your boss.”

In a way, the government and Evelyn’s company were at her command, playing out the intention she clearly held. The same result could have manifested itself through another channel. It does not matter. When Evelyn got clear about her intention, the universe got clear about the result.

You, too, can have any person or institution play out your intentions. They already are. Upgrade and clarify your intentions and watch miracles unfold.

How could you get clearer about your intentions and attract what you want?

My role in creating results is real and powerful.

I make my choice, and the universe supports me.

 

Wake Up and Live! ~ Stirring up the power within.

One day a lion cub was playing alone in the wilderness while his mother slept. The baby lion decided that he’d explore a bit and see what the great world beyond his home was like. Before he realized it, he’d wandered so far that he couldn’t find his way back. He was lost.

Very frightened, the cub ran frantically in every direction calling piteously for his mom, but she didn’t hear him. Weary from searching, he didn’t know what else to do. Then a sheep, whose offspring had been taken from her, heard his cries and adopted him.

The sheep became very fond of her foundling, who in a short while grew so large that at times she was almost afraid of him. Often she’d detect a strange, far-off look in his eyes that she couldn’t understand.

Nonetheless, the foster mother and her adopted cub lived very happily together until one day when a magnificent lion appeared, sharply outlined against the sky on the top of a nearby hill. He shook his tawny mane and uttered a terrific roar, which echoed through the countryside. The mother sheep stood paralyzed with fear, but the cub listened as though spellbound.

The lion’s roar had touched a chord in his nature that he’d never felt before. New desires and a consciousness of his power possessed him. Instinctively he answered the lion’s call with a corresponding roar.

Trembling with mingled fear, surprise, and bewilderment at the feelings aroused within him, the awakened animal gave his foster mother a last look and then, with a tremendous leap, started toward the lion on the hill.

The lost cub had found himself. Until then he’d gamboled around his sheep mother just as though he were a lamb, never dreaming that he could do anything different from the ordinary sheep around him. He hadn’t imagined that he had within him a power that could strike terror in the other beasts of the jungle. Whereas he used to tremble at the mere howl of a wolf, he was now amazed to find that the animals that had terrified him before now fled from him.

As long as the baby lion thought he was a sheep, he was as timid and retiring as one. He had only a sheep’s strength and courage and could never have exerted the command of a lion. If someone had suggested that he could, he would have asked, “How could I be so powerful? I’m only a sheep.”

But when the lion was awakened in him, he instantly became a new creature, the king of beasts. The roar he heard hadn’t given him any new abilities; it had merely brought forth what was already within him, revealing what he’d always possessed. Never again could this young animal be satisfied to act like a sheep. From then on he’d live as a lion.

There is in every human being a sleeping lion. It’s just a question of rousing it… of finding something that will stir the depths of our being and awaken the powers within. Just like the cub, when we at last discover that we’re more than mere clay and have the Divine Spirit within us, we shall never again be satisfied to live like a common clod of earth. We’ll feel a new sense of strength welling up that we didn’t know we possessed, and we’ll no longer be content with low-flying ideals and cheap success. Instead, we’ll seek higher and higher planes.

In a Nutshell

Let go of everything else if you must but never lose your own esteem. This is a priceless pearl and is dearer to you than your breath. Protect it with all your might.

Perhaps the past has been a bitter disappointment for you. In reviewing it, you may feel that you’ve been a failure or at best have been plodding along in mediocrity. Yet in spite of any setbacks, if you refuse to be conquered, victory is awaiting you farther down the road.

Try to bring forth your enormous potential. You know that it’s there and can instinctively feel it. Your intuition and ambition tell you that there’s much more in you than you’ve ever discovered or used. Why don’t you stir it up and call it out?

 

Your Chosen Path

One of my favorite poets, Robert Frost, is the author of one of the world’s best-loved and most famous poems, “The Road Not Taken.” This poem about choosing an independent course applies in all areas of our lives. To me, Frost says be wary of following the pack, and don’t do anything simply because everyone else is doing it. Also, do what you do in the manner that you perceive it, regardless of how everyone is doing it, or has done it. The importance of choosing your own path is reflected in the poem’s conclusion—that taking the road “less traveled by” makes all the difference. Virtually all the people we revere took the road less traveled by, and that is why they were able to make a difference.

Frost himself was expected to be a farmer, lawyer, and then a teacher. He tried farming and left it. He entered law school to be the lawyer his grandfather wanted him to be, but departed almost immediately without notice. He left Harvard because of an illness, perhaps brought on by trying the road most traveled. But poetry was in his heart, and when he went down a road that few traveled with him, it made all the difference, and today we have his poetry because of that choice.

Frost’s poem invites you to forget peer pressure and instead know that if you truly want to make a difference in your life, you cannot do so by doing things the way everyone else does or because everyone else is. If you choose to lead your life just like everyone else, then what exactly is it that you have to offer? The road most traveled by is one that will allow you to fit in and feel accepted, but it will never allow you to make a difference.

In my own professional work I have been willing to speak and write about topics and ideas that were criticized by those on the more frequented road. In the beginning, the road I took was filled with potholes and gravel. Yet my work has always come from that place I trust most—my own heart—and so I persisted. As the years passed the road became paved and well-lit. Now many who once thought this was a preposterous path are walking with me. I have heard them say, “I used to think those ideas were insane, but now I really like what you were saying then.” I am happy to have experienced what Robert Frost was writing about.

Listen to your own heart concerning the path you wish to travel. Even if your entire life training has been in one direction, if it is not what you feel now, then begin the adventure of exploring a less-traveled road.